遗弃

Lifeis the most precious God-given gift, this giftshould bewith full blessing, but unfortunately, some of life inherently incomplete, and tragic, have been abandoned...

生命是上帝所赐予的最珍贵的礼物，这是一份沉甸甸的应该饱满祝福的礼物，但不幸的是，有些生命生来就是残缺的、悲惨的、被遗弃的。。。

That's because we tend to time our blinks so that we don't get left in the dark.

这是因为我们倾向于安排好眨眼睛的时间，以至于不会被遗弃在黑暗中。

Wasn't Jackson really one of Peter's Lost Boys, stranded between childhood and adolescence, loved by the public yet feeling caged and abandoned, and searching, groping for the Edenic innocence he believed was any child's birthright?

他不就是那个游荡于孩子和成人世界之间，尽管被公众热爱，但是却倍感困顿和被遗弃的男孩吗？他不就是那个一直在寻找和摸索伊甸园般的天真无邪，并深信那是孩子与生俱来的一种纯真的男孩吗？

The author also presents the following phenomena which must have significant implications on the mental health of children in many countries in Asia . 1 Nuclearization of the family system and alarming increase of divorce, 2 Reduction of the number of children in a family, 3 Rising number of working mothers and women ? s equal right movement, 4 Lack of opportunity for parents to learn how to raise a child, 5 Steep competition and exclusive emphasis on scholastic achievement in school, 6 Marked changes in value orientations from traditional to modern ones, 7 Confusing and often contradictory advices by "experts" and "professionals" on child rearing and child education, 8 New tides of globalization and confounding co-existence of multi-cultures in most countries and emergences of virtual world, IT and BT industry in some advanced countries, resulting in new forms of psychopathology such as 'internet addiction' and extreme social isolation.Implications of these findings in terms of interventions and prevention for mental health children in developing countries are discussed in developmental, ecological and ethological points of view.

作者提出在大多数亚洲国家存在儿童抚养问题危机，主要依据以下观察：①避孕和意外怀孕②逃避和拒绝抚养，虐待儿童，遗弃幼童③不恰当的早期抚养④不恰当的/不够充分的教育，过度保护和过度控制⑤性别角色和态度改变⑥对智力发展拔苗助长以及学习成绩的压力作者还提出了以下几种现象，它们与亚洲国家的儿童精神健康有着密切关联：①家庭体系核心化和令人担忧的离婚率猛增②家庭成员中儿童数量的减少③职业妇女做母亲及妇女解放运动的兴起④父母亲抚养孩子经验不足⑤学校对学习成绩的过分强调合潜在的竞争压力⑥传统价值观在现代化的冲击中发生明显的变化⑦所谓&专家&和&权威人士&对孩子抚养和教育的观点众说纷纭⑧全球化新潮及多种文化共存的问题，虚拟世界的出现，发达国家 IT 、 BT 工业引发新型精神病理现象如&网络成瘾&和极端的社会隔绝根据这些发现，如何干涉和预防发展中国家的儿童精神健康问题，我们将从精神发育、生物学、行为学观点进行阐述。

Nuclearization of the family system and alarming increase of divorce, 2 Reduction of the number of children in a family, 3 Rising number of working mothers and womens equal right movement, 4 Lack of opportunity for parents to learn how to raise a child, 5 Steep competition and exclusive emphasis on scholastic achievement in school, 6 Marked changes in value orientations from traditional to modern ones, 7 Confusing and often contradictory advices by "experts" and "professionals" on child rearing and child education, 8 New tides of globalization and confounding co-existence of multi-cultures in most countries and emergences of virtual world, IT and BT industry in some advanced countries, resulting in new forms of psychopathology such as 'internet addiction' and extreme social isolation.Implications of these findings in terms of interventions and prevention for mental health children in developing countries are discussed in developmental, ecological and ethological points of view.

作者提出在大多数亚洲国家存在儿童抚养问题危机，主要依据以下观察：①避孕和意外怀孕②逃避和拒绝抚养，虐待儿童，遗弃幼童③不恰当的早期抚养④不恰当的/不够充分的教育，过度保护和过度控制⑤性别角色和态度改变⑥对智力发展拔苗助长以及学习成绩的压力作者还提出了以下几种现象，它们与亚洲国家的儿童精神健康有着密切关联：①家庭体系核心化和令人担忧的离婚率猛增②家庭成员中儿童数量的减少③职业妇女做母亲及妇女解放运动的兴起④父母亲抚养孩子经验不足⑤学校对学习成绩的过分强调合潜在的竞争压力⑥传统价值观在现代化的冲击中发生明显的变化⑦所谓&专家&和&权威人士&对孩子抚养和教育的观点众说纷纭⑧全球化新潮及多种文化共存的问题，虚拟世界的出现，发达国家IT、BT 工业引发新型精神病理现象如&网络成瘾&和极端的社会隔绝根据这些发现，如何干涉和预防发展中国家的儿童精神健康问题，我们将从精神发育、生物学、行为学观点进行阐述。

Although New York often imparts a feeling of great forlornness or forsakenness, it seldom seems dead or unresourceful; and you always feel that either by shifting your location ten blocks or by reducing your fortune by five dollars you can experience rejuvenation.

尽管纽约时常给人强烈的孤独无助和被遗弃感，它却很少死气沉沉或缺乏生机。你经常觉得，只要改变住处搬到十个街区以外，或者少赚五美元，就能重新获得生机和活力。

Although New York often imparts a feeling of great forlornness or forsakenness, it seldom seems dead or unresourceful; and you always feel that either by shifting your location ten blocks or by reducing your fortune by five dollars you can experience rejuvenation.

虽然纽约时常予人以强烈的被遗弃感和孤绝感，但它很少显得死板乏味。你总会觉得，只要挪过十条街的位置，或者搭上五美元的钱财，就能东山再起。

Although New York often imparts a feeling of great forlornness or forsakenness, it seldom seems dead or unresourceful; and you always feel that either by shifting your location ten blocks or by reducing your fortune by five dollars you can experience rejuvenation.

虽然纽约经常给人以被遗弃或抛弃的感觉，但它几乎从不显得死气沉沉或资源匮乏；你会觉得只要把住所挪动十个街区，或者从自己的财产中拿出五块钱，就能重获新生。

Although New York often imparts a feeling of great forlornness or forsakenness, it seldom seems dead or unresourceful; and you always feel that either by shifting your location ten blocks or by reducing your fortune by five dollars you can experience rejuvenation.

纽约虽说时常给人一种沉重的失落感或被遗弃感，城市却难得显出死气沉沉或一筹莫展的样子，反倒是你总拥有一种希望：越过10条马路搬次家，或是花去5美元，就能重新焕发青春。

However,"I" often fall in love with myself, and get neglected and discarded by them, letting my soul drift homelessly here and there.

然而通常&我&是&单恋&着，遭到对方的漠视乃至遗弃，只能让灵魂不断漂泊，处于无所归依的境地。

She gently rebuff ed him, but agreed that they could be friends

她婉言拒绝了，但同意作为朋友相处。

If in the penal farm, you were sure to be criticized.

要是在劳改农场，你等着挨绳子吧！