追悔

Her missing, my afterthought...

她的牵念，我的追悔

After 20 years old ,we get away the public's pressure, unload the burden and start to pursue our own dreams with entire effort ,and we live our lives like that amusedly for 20 years .

可是到了40岁，发现青春已逝，不免产生许多的遗憾和追悔，于是开始遗憾这个、惋惜那个、抱怨这个、嫉恨那个。

If the time can backdate to the happy times, if the things can be redone, if the suggestions can be taken, if Ye can relive…There are always too many 'if's around our lives, but afterthoughts never work.

如果时间可以回溯到那些开心的时光，如果事情可以重来，如果那些劝说可以起到作用，如果叶可以回来…我们的一生中有太多的如果，但是事后的追悔总是于事无补。

As melancholy as a catsick as a cat as weak as a cat (=as weak as water) barber's cat bear cat bell the cat blowing cat Cheshire cat copy cat dead cat Dog my cats! enough to make a cat laugh enough to make a horse laugh enough to make a cat speak fat cat fight like Kilkenny cats flog the cat grin like a Cheshire cat Has the cat got your tongue?

极其可笑；让人笑掉大牙极其可笑；让人笑掉大牙令人惊讶；事情太出奇美国政治运动的出资人，捐献大宗政治款项的富人；安于现状的懒汉；以权谋私的人，享受特权的人死拚作无益的追悔咧着嘴傻笑猫把你的舌头叼去了吗？

Some of the women who have lost their jobs find themselves second-guessing any sartorial liberties they did take.

一些失去工作的女性对自己过去在穿着打扮方面的随意颇为追悔。

She disclosed the injustice of the self-satisfying and non-regretting society of Patriarchy, which was all carefully covered by the admiring arts and literature.

米里特以其探索者的目光，揭示了一个踌躇满志、毫无追悔之意的男权社会的不公正，而这一切却被受人仰慕的文学和艺术的华丽外衣精心地包裹着。

It's useless, as I always say, to cry over spilled milk.

它没有用的，因为我总是说，到追悔已经失去的。

If we cannot resurrect, our filthy soul would be locked in a heavy shackle and finally there is one day that we suffer in the pain of regret, and unable to pass away serenely.

不能复活，我们肮脏的灵魂被锁上沉重的镣铐，终有一天，我们会在追悔的痛苦折磨中，无法安详离去。

And it never comes,or it seems to,but it doesn't really.So you spend your time in vague regret or vaguer hope that something good will come along.Something to make you feel connected.Something to make you feel whole,Something to make you feel loved.

但那从来都不会或者似乎要发生，真的不会，所以你再次花时间去茫然追悔，或茫然地寄望接下来会遇上好事情，让你感到自己不是与世隔绝的，让你感到自己的存在，让你感到自己是被爱的。

And it seemed a fouler offence committed by Roger Chillingworth, than any which had since been done him, that, in the time when her heart knew no better, he had persuaded her to fancy herself happy by his side.

她认为，她以前竟然忍受并回握了他那不冷不热的篡握，竟然以自己眉眼和嘴唇的微笑来迎合他的笑意，实在是她最应追悔的罪过。

The split between the two groups can hardly be papered over.

这两个团体间的分歧难以掩饰。

This approach not only encourages a greater number of responses, but minimizes the likelihood of stale groupthink.

这种做法不仅鼓励了更多的反应，而且减少跟风的可能性。