设身处地

I'd see him standing my watch on top of his'n,'stead of calling me, so I could go on sleeping; and see him how glad he was when I come back out of the fog; and when I come to him again in the swamp, up there where the feud was; and such-like times; and would always call me honey, and pet me and do everything he could think of for me, and how good he always was; and at last I struck the time I saved him by telling the men we had small-pox aboard, and he was so grateful, and said I was the best friend old Jim ever had in the world, and the ONLY one he's got now; and then I happened to look around and see that paper.

我看到，当我从一片浓雾中回来，当我在世仇械斗那儿，在泥塘里又见到了他，在所有这类的时刻里，他是多么兴高采烈，总要叫我乖乖，总要宠我，总要想尽一切方法为我设身处地设想，他对我始终如一这么好啊。最后我又想起了那一回的事：我对划拢来的人们说，我们木筏子上有害天花的，从而搭救了他，这时他是多么地感激，说我是老杰姆在这个世上最好的朋友，也是他如今唯一的朋友。正是这个时刻，我碰巧朝四下里张望，一眼看到了那一张纸。

In order to unglue ourselves from the usual roles we play, it is helpful to step into another's shoes. Try seeing the situation from your partner's point of view. Pretend you are them for a few moments; what would you need or want if that were true? Look at yourself through their eyes. You may be in for quite a surprise.

要从所扮演的角色中解开我们的自我，这有助于我们设身处地的思考，试着从你的伙伴的观点去看问题，假设你是他们，如果这种假设成立的话，那什么是你想要的呢，，试着用他们的眼光看你自己，你可能非常吃惊。

In this Year for Priests, how can we not recall that we priests can be especially reflected in this Johannine text, identifying ourselves with the Apostles, where it says: Where can we find bread for all these people?

在这司铎年堶情A我们怎能不想到身为司铎的我们，特别可以从这段若望福音反观自己，设身处地如宗徒们一样地问说：我们从哪媔R饼给这些人吃呢？

The creation of public"solidarity"by imagination, in brief, involves"situating the self in the position of the Other", construction of a utopia as a"poetic"context or space, and"redescription".

启动想象，以&设身处地&为前提，通过建构乌托邦营造出&诗化&的语境或空间，利用再描述就可以创造出公共&团结&。

Perhaps we all give the best of our hearts uncritically,to those who hardly think about us in return.

可能我们都将自己最真的心毫无保留的交付给了某人，而这个人却从未设身处地为我们想过。

T.H White said,"perhaps we all give the best of our hearts uncritically, to those who hardly think about us in return."

可能我们都将自己最真的心毫无保留的交付给了某人，而这个人却从未设身处地为我们想过。

What was it like for him, to keep this secret in order to have some semblance of normality in his life?

设身处地为他想一下，为了过上正常的生活，只有隐藏这个秘密，这是怎样一番景况。

The greatest help can be an understanding and patient parent who listens well and empathizes, he said in the same interview.

他在接受采访时称，最大的帮助来自耐心且理解孩子的父母，他们要擅长倾听，能够设身处地。

Don't forget, empathizing with someone's job responsibility, you put yourself on the same side.

不要忘了，你要设身处地地为他们着想，要强调一下他们的工作责任感。

The best approach, the kind truth method, involves honestly empathizing with the manager's situation, and expressing that empathy.

最佳的做法是&善意真相&方式，这要求员工设身处地为上司考虑，并表达出这种感受。

Neither the killing of Mr Zarqawi nor any breakthrough on the political front will stop the insurgency and the fratricidal murders in their tracks.

在对危险的南部地区访问时，他斥责什叶派民兵领导人对中央集权的挑衅行为。

In fact,I've got him on the satellite mobile right now.

实际上 我们已接通卫星可视电话了