禁止的事情

My eyes were wet. Now I know that there are things in this world that cannot be banned.

我的眼睛湿了，我现在才知道，世上有些事情是禁止不了的。

The jealous dating partner forbids the other single dater to wear certain things in public.

该妒忌约会的伙伴禁止，其他单dater穿一些事情在公众。

Do you think it is right to prohibit the owner from doing things in his own castle?

你认为禁止主人在自己的城堡里做什么事情合理吗？

The first consequence is that the child will inevitably consider one parent "good", more willing to give in to his desires and the other parent "bad", always ready to prohibit him from doing something. But what makes matters worse is that the child, receiving conflicting messages on the same matter, does not absorb the rule. In other words, as he does not receive clear and univocal messages from the most important people, a child becomes incapable of building up stable reference points, because he acknowledges the concept that there is no such thing as fixed rules and that what parents say can be disputed. A child can also learn to exploit the different points of view to his advantage, turning each time the more permissive parent and ignoring the authority of the more severe one. This can also have important repercussions in the years that follow, because a person who has not learned specific reference points as a child, becomes incapable of respecting the simple rules even at school, at work and those of civil cohabitation. With inevitable consequences from a social and relationship point of view.

第一个我们得到的结论就是小孩子可能会推断只要是能够满足他的欲望的父亲或母亲就是「好的」，而将另一位总是禁止他做某些事情的父亲或母亲当作是「不好的」，但让情况变得更糟的是小孩，在同一个世界当中不断接受到冲突的讯息，但并没有理解这个规则，换句话说，他无法从最重要的人们身上收到清楚、明确的讯息，无法与其建立信赖关系，因为他认知到爸妈说的话是可以被质疑的，且没有任何修改的规则，一个小孩对於他的利益会有不同的观点，只要有一方放纵小孩，而小孩则会去忽视比较严格的那一方，接下来的几年影响力是持续的，因为当他还是孩子的时候他没有去学会那些特定的参考指标，所以就变得没有办法遵循那些很简单的规则，甚至是在学校、工作上或是一般社区的环境，从社交关系上来说这是无法避免的结论。

LAWSON: Clearly you have to have a much more sophisticated system to be able to prevent people fibbing about their reason for wanting the list and also of course to stop them passing the list on to other people and clearly people like the animal liberationists, they do other things that are illegal - lying about that kind of thing would be a fairly trivial matter for them.

劳森：显然，你必须建立一个更为成熟的系统，以阻止那些人编造理由以骗取信息，当然，同时也要禁止他们把信息透露给其他人。很显然，像动物解放者那样的人还会做其他不合法的事--在这种事情上撒谎，对他们而言只是件小事而已。

But things are changing: when an employee of British Airways was denied permission to wear a small cross, squawks were heard across the land.

但事情正在发生改变：当英国航空公司的一位雇员被禁止在飞机上带十字架时，他们马上听到了地面上抗议的生意。

Christian Britain has been a largely secular place for decades. But things are changing: when an employee of British Airways was denied permission to wear a small cross, squawks were heard across the land.

很多年来信仰基督的英国已经成为一个世俗的地方，但事情正在发生改变：当英国航空公司的一位雇员被禁止在飞机上带十字架时，他们马上听到了地面上抗议的生意。

We need governments, regulatory bodies and other agencies to ban sexualised representations of children and to do something to stop the pornification of every aspect of daily life.

我们需要政府、管理部门以及其它机构禁止对性化儿童形象的展示，并且做些事情去阻止日常生活方方面面的色情化。

There are, also, rules governing, among other matters, the burden of proof, who shall bear it and what it shall be, the prohibition on double jeopardy , and the privilege against self-incrimination .

在其他事情中，也有一些规则控制举证责任，谁要对其负责及该如何负责，双重危险的禁止和禁止自证其罪的权利。

No clear conclusions can be made about the predictie alidity of specific measures, they found, except for criteria for the underuse of drugs for cardioascular disease.

除了心血管病不合理用药标准外，对于特定评价方法的预测效度没有明确的结论。

The third and last is that almost all of them, being infinite in number, have been impostures, and by idle and crafty brains merely contrived and feigned after the event past.

第三、即最后一点是：几乎所有这些不胜枚举的预言都是欺人之谈，都是在事件过后由无聊而狡猾的脑筋推测与凭空捏造的。