扪心自问

MAYER: Right. For a long time I was asking,"What's wrong with me?"

是吧。很长一段时间我都扪心自问我究竟怎么了？

However, when I reflected on this experience, I asked myself:At that time I went away without any debate, is it for modesty and tolerance of Chinese or their self-abasement and recreance?

但当我再次回顾反省时，我扪心自问，那一刻，我没有做任何辩解就愤然离开，（这符合中国人遇事忍让的处世哲学）到底是因为中国人的谦逊与宽容呢，还是中国人的自卑与懦弱呢？

That which he HAD always feared most of all in his hours of self-communion, during his sleepless nights, was to ever hear that name pronounced

当他扪心自问时，当他黑夜思量时，他发现他向来最怕的，便是有一天听见别人提到那个名字

That which he had always feared most of all in his hours of self-communion, dur in g his sleepless nights, was to ever hear that name pronounced

当他扪心自问时，当他黑夜思量时，他发现他向来最怕的，便是有一天听见别人提到那个名字

What do you need to ask yourself about each e-mail, voice-mail, memo, or self-generated idea that comes your way?

对于你的每一封电子和语音邮件，每一条备忘录或者每一个自然萌生的念头，你需要扪心自问一些什么样的问题呢？

And they ask themselves, shamefacedly, When have we not trusted?

他们害羞地扪心自问∶「我们甚麽时候竟然忘了信赖呢？

Therefore we get to the point where we ask ourselves, Is this really worth it?

因此我们得到的地步，我们扪心自问，"这是真正值得的"？

Every day, i ask myself how i can run out of this vortex.

每天，我都扪心自问，我怎样才能走出这个旋涡。

It will happen to all of us eventually , the moment will come when we ask ourselves … where did the time go , How did the children I once cradled , grow up so very quickly ?

终有一天我们都会如此，某一时刻扪心自问…时光流逝到哪里，襁褓中的孩子，是怎么样在眨眼间长大的？

If you remain intact all along, then ask yourself whose problem it really is instead of griping about the unfaireness this world assumably presents.

如果一个人从开始到最后一直没有变化，那就不要抱怨周遭，扪心自问是不是自己的问题。

But we don't care about Battlegrounds.

但我们并不在乎沙场中的显露。

Ah! don't mention it, the butcher's shop is a horror.

啊！不用提了。提到肉，真是糟透了。