妄想的

But this was love--this fever, this longing, this restless, uncertain, miserable hesitation; these cruel fears that his age was an insurmountable barrier to his happiness; this sick hatred of his white beard; this frenzied wish to be young again, with glistening raven hair, and a slim waist, such as he had had twenty years before; these wakeful nights and melancholy days, so gloriously brightened if he chanced to catch a glimpse of her sweet face behind the window curtains as he drove past the surgeon's house; all these signs gave token of the truth; and told only too plainly that, at the sober age of fifty-five, Sir Michael Audley had fallen ill of the terrible fever called love.

然而如今这可是爱惜——这狂热，这渴望，这烦躁的、不确定的、痛苦的犹豫不决；这些残酷的恐惧，深恐他的年龄是他获得幸福的不可克服的障碍；这种对他的白胡子的病态的憎恨；这种妄想重新年轻的疯狂愿望（乌黑发光的头发，细细的腰身，就象二十年前那个模样）；这些不眠之夜和忧郁的白天啊，只要他骑马经过外科医生家时，碰巧看到一眼窗帘后面的她那美丽可爱的脸，他就无比荣幸容光焕发，所有这些迹象都标志着实际的心态；十分明白地告诉人们：迈克尔·奥德利爵士在年届五十五岁这个头脑清醒的年龄，竟生了一场叫做爱情的可怕热病。

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浪漫庄园里玩家的个性空间打造——庄园领地，也完全由着自主DIY游戏内容和游戏方式来经营养成，植树种花、庄稼果树，不必赶赴城市郊区租地种地，一样可以感受田园风光和拥揽大捧收获的快乐体验；不必拘泥于家居里适宜的养殖空间和养殖条件，就能够带给小动物们更多的关心和爱抚，没事逗逗小猪，追追小兔，喂喂小鸡；也不必再勉强接受房地产开发商的环山近海临近商圈的超级大忽悠，以及千篇一律欧式风格和统一的房屋格局，庄园内建筑群落、户型格局，外观风格走向、室内装修、庭院布置全由你自己说了算，DIY全程体验，一人分饰多角，触角枝蔓扩展更多专业领域和生活历练；更不必强迫自己为了工作公关和情感生活，与全然陌生的、毫无交集可言的人和圈子强颜欢笑，爱上浪漫的人天性无拘无束，自由和爱是她们最在乎的小小妄想，浪漫庄园里集合了他们所有志同道合的朋友，他们就是这样相亲相爱的一家人。

D its lonely hours and dreary, When we Close the aching sight, Musing sadly, lorn and weary, Trusting that tomorrow's light May reveal a day more cheery; Amid affliction's darker hour, When no hope beguiles our sadness, When Death's hurtling tempests lower, And forever shroud our gladness, While Grief's unrelenting power Goads our stricken hearts to madness; When from friends beloved we're parted, And from scenes our spirits love, And are driven, broken-hearted, O'er a heartless world to rove; When the woes by which we've smarted, Vainly seek to melt or move; When we trust and are deluded, When we love and are denied, When the schemes o'er which we brooded Burst like mist on mountain's side, And, from every hope excluded, We in dark despair abide; Then, and ever, God sustains us, He whose eye no slumber knows, Who controls each throb that pains us, And in mercy sends our woes, And by love severe constrains us To avoid eternal throes.

小时的孤独和凄凉，当我们关闭疼痛视觉，沉思可悲的是，洛恩和厌倦，相信明天的光线可能揭示出一个更愉快的一天；一片痛苦的黑暗时刻，当我们不希望翻滚的波涛上面悲伤，当死亡的飞驰暴风雨低，我们永远裹尸布高兴，虽然悲伤的不懈动力Goads我们灾区的心以疯狂；当从我们可爱的朋友分手，从场面我们的精神的爱，并驱动，伤心，O'er是无情世界的罗夫，当其中我们元气疾苦，妄想寻求融化或移动，当我们的信任和迷惑，当我们爱和被剥夺，当计划o'er 像我们反复思量山区一边薄雾破灭，从每一个希望排除，我们在黑暗的绝望遵守，那么，和以往任何时候都维持我们的上帝，他的眼睛没有沉睡知道，谁控制每一个跳动的痛苦我们，在我们的困境发出慈悲，爱和严重制约我们避免永恒的阵痛。

The author mentions the concepts of Klein's "paranoid-schizoid position" and "depressive position", Bion's three "basic assumption groups", Winnicott's "good enough mother" and "transitional object", and how they are applied to the group dynamic and therapeutic process.

作者提到客体关系理论中的主要概念，包括克莱恩的「妄想分裂处境」与「忧郁处境」，比昂的三个「基本假设团体」，以及温尼科特的「足够好的母亲」以及「转换性客体」等，并诠释成员在团体变化过程中的心境，指出运用客体关系理论的概念於团体动力的分析及治疗的原则上时，有其临床上的适用性。

He call'd me one Morning into his Chamber, where he confined by the Gout, and expostulated very warmly me upon this Subject: He ask'd me what Reasons more a meer wandring inclination I had for leaving my Father House and my native Country, where I might be well introduced, and had a Prospect of raising my Fortunes Application and Industry, with a Life of Ease and Pleasure He told me it was for Men of desperate Fortunes on one Hand, or of aspiring, Superior Fortunes on the other, who went abroad upon Adventures, to rise by Enterprize, and make themselves famous in Undertakings of a Nature out of the common Road; that these things were all either too far above me, or too far below me; that mine was the middle State, or what might be called the upper Station of Low Life, which he had found by long Experience was the best State in the World, the most suited to human Happiness, not exposed to the Miseries and Hardships, the Labour and Sufferings of the mechanick Part of Mankind, and not embarass'd with the Pride, Luxury, Ambition and Envy of the upper Part of Mankind.

一天早晨，他把我叫进他的卧室；因为，那时他正好痛风病发作，行动不便。他十分恳切地对我规劝了一番。他问我，除了为满足我自己漫游四海的癖好外，究竟有什么理由要离弃父母，背井离乡呢？在家乡，我可以经人引荐，在社会上立身。如果我自己勤奋努力，将来完全可以发家致富，过上安逸快活的日子。他对我说，一般出洋冒险的人，不是穷得身无分文，就是妄想暴富；他们野心勃勃，想以非凡的事业扬名于世。但对我来说，这样做既不值得，也无必要。就我的社会地位而言，正好介于两者之间，即一般所说的中间地位。从他长期的经验判断，这是世界上最好的阶层，这种中间地位也最能使人幸福。

With Death guitarist Schuldiner adopting vocal duties, the band made a major impact on the scene.

随着死亡的吉他手Schuldiner接受主唱的职务，乐队在现实中树立了重要的影响。

But he could still end up breakfasting on Swiss-government issue muesli because all six are accused of nicking around 45 million pounds they should have paid to FIFA.

不过他最后仍有可能沦为瑞士政府&议事餐桌&上的一道早餐，因为这所有六个人都被指控把本应支付给国际足联的大约4500万英镑骗了个精光。