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However,Although Chinese children,youth even college students' achievements in text study is not worse than American children,their disposition appears more passive:reluctant in behaving,timid,reliable,wanting comunication capability and self-reliance,uncapable of financial management,unsuitable of independent living.to be short,deficient in social living.there characteristics of Chinese children unquestionably have a deep tie with China's "Diplomacy Orentational Education".

我们可从中美两国家庭教育结果的比较中略见一斑：一般而言，美国的儿童、少年从小就表现出以下特点：性格倾向积极，遇事镇定沉着，能与人和谐相处，开朗、胆大，有克服困难的毅力，敢想、敢做，具有创新精神；自立能力强，社会活动能力强，有作为社会成员独立存在的信心和勇气，他们18岁开始不依靠家庭，多数打工补贴自身的消费需用；具有适应市场经济的头脑，他们从小就参与"当家理财"，学会一些推销、与顾客沟通的能力等"经营之道"，实践使他们深知钱来之不易，从而养成了精打细算、勤俭度日的习惯。

He bid me observe it, and I should always find , that the calamities of life were shared among the upper and lower part of mankind; but that the middle station had the fewest disasters, and was not exposed, to so many vicissitudes as the higher or lower part of mankind; nay, they were not subjected to so many distempers and uneasiness either of body or mind, as those were who, by vicious living, luxury and extravagancies on one hand, or hard labour, want of necessaries, and mean or insufficient diet on the other hand, bring distempers upon themselves by the natural consequences of their way of living; that the middle station of life was calculated for all kind of virtues and all kinds of a middle fortune; that temperance, moderation, quietness, health, society, all agreeable diversions, and all desirable pleasures, were the blessing attending the middle station of life; that this way men went silently and smoothly through the world, and comfortably out of it, not embarrassed with the labour of the hands or of the head, not sold to the life of slavery for daily bread, or harassed with perplexed circumstances, which rob the soul of peace, and the body of rest; not enraged with the passion of envy, or secret burning lust of ambition for great things; but in easy circumstances sliding gently through the world, and sensibly tasting the sweets of living, without the bitter, feeling that they are happy, and learning by every day's experience to know it more sensibly.

他嘱咐我，只要用心观察，到处都可发现：生活的灾难是由上层和下层两类人分担，而中间阶层灾难最少，不会像那两类人那样，要经历那么多的荣辱变迁，商海浮沉。中间阶层也绝不会像阔佬那样，因骄奢淫逸、挥霍无度而狂躁不安、身心俱损；也不会像穷人那样，因劳累辛苦、缺吃少穿，以及这种穷苦生活自然而然带来的种种后果而焦急不安、忧心忡忡。他说，中等生活最能保持各种美德和一切正常而适中的享受，中等人的生活经常是安定富足的。他说，和睦和富裕是中产阶层的随身伴侣。他说，和善、谦虚、宁静、健康、社交、各种正当的娱乐、各种有益的消遣，都是降临到中等人头上的福份。他们就这样默默地、但又是顺利地、当然也是舒服地走过人生的旅途，不受劳力和劳心之苦，也不必为每天的面包而卖身为奴，或被困境搞得身心疲惫；也不会因心怀嫉妒和好大喜功而野心勃勃、贪婪无度，而是在轻松的环境下平静地度过一生，有意识地品尝着生活的甜美，没有痛苦，只感到幸福，并且通过日益增多的经验，越来越有意识地去学会品尝和感受幸福。

Programmers need to learn to think like security professionals, to some extent, so that their influence on the architecture of the software they develop will tend toward greater security; network administrators and architects need to learn such skills to ensure that their implementations of networking technologies will not create terrible security debacles waiting to happen; Web developers need to think like a security professional, with all the practical paranoia that entails, so that they will realize the ways publicly accessible Web applications and services can be abused and twisted to nefarious ends, and plan accordingly.

在一定程度上，程序员需要学会像安全专家那样思考，从而影响他们所开发的的软件结构，将倾向于更大的安全；网络管理员和建筑师需要学习这种技能，以确保其实施的网络技术将不会产生定时的可怕安全事故。网页开发者需要像安全专家那样思考，利用所有必需的实际揣测，从而察觉到可公开访问的Web应用程序和服务可以被滥用和扭曲到相应的违法目的、计划的途径。

Programmers need to learn to think like security professionals, to some extent, so that their influence on the architecture of the software they develop will tend toward greater security; network administrators and architects need to learn such skills to ensure that their implementations of networking technologies will not create terrible security debacles waiting to happen; Web developers need to think like a security professional, with all the practical paranoia that entails, so that they will realize the ways publicly accessible Web applications and services can be abused and twisted to nefarious ends, and plan accordingly.

在一定程度上，程序员需要学会像安全专家那样思考，从而影响他们所开发的的软件结构，将倾向于更大的安全；网络管理员和构建师需要学习这种技能，以确保其实施的网络技术将不会产生定时的可怕安全事故。网页开发者需要像安全专家那样思考，利用所有必需的实际揣测，从而察觉到可公开访问的Web应用程序和服务可以被滥用和扭曲到相应的违法目的、计划的途径。

We have no common name for a mime of Sophron or Xenarchus and a Socratic Conversation; and we should still be without one even if the imitation in the two instances were in trimeters or elegiacs or some other kind of verse--though it is the way with people to tack on 'poet' to the name of a metre, and talk of elegiac-poets and epic-poets, thinking that they call them poets not by reason of the imitative nature of their work, but indiscriminately by reason of the metre they write in.

索夫农 、森那库斯和苏格拉底式的对话采用的模仿没有一个公共的名称；三音步诗、挽歌体或其他类型的诗的模仿也没有——人们把&诗人&这一名词和格律名称结合到一起，称之为挽歌体诗人或者史诗诗人，他们被称为诗人，似乎只是因为遵守格律写作，而非他们作品的模仿本质。

The relationship between communicative competence and grammar teaching should be that of the ends and the means.

交际能力和语法的关系应该是目标与途径的关系。