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One day I accompanied her to have fried cicadae. Habitually she rubbed her grease fingers on her real silk short gown. I held back her from doing it:" What do you want to do?"

一天我正陪她吃炸知了，她手上的油多了，便习惯地往真丝小褂子上蹭，我阻止道："你想干什么？"

This means that women define and experience themselves relationally.

这意味着她们对自己的定位和体验是关系型的。