别人

Abrasive personalities usually do not see themselves as abrasive and are therefore sometimes very interested, if puzzled, to see the main elements of what other people see as abrasiveness spelled out.

容易伤害或刺激到别人的人通常不会觉得自己是这样的，因此对于阅读这样的文章也会很感到兴趣；如果不知道什么样的人容易伤害到别人的话，可以看看别人是怎么看待且详加叙述这些容易伤害到别人的人的主要要素

Since Man is but of a very limited Power in his own Person, and consequently can effect no great Matter merely by his own personal Strength, but as he acts in Society and Conjunction with others; and since no Man can engage the active Assistance of others, without first engaging their Trust; And moreover, since Men will trust no further than they judge one, for his _Sincerity_, fit to be trusted; it follows, that a discovered Dissembler can atchieve nothing great or considerable.

一个人的力量是非常有限，因而仅凭个人能力做不了什么大事，但人生在社会中，他可以能通过与他人的合作而有所作为。一个人只有先获得别人的信任，才能获得别人的的主动帮助。而一个人总是要看准了别人对自己的真诚，才会信任别人，而一个伪君子一旦露了馅，终将一事无成。

Dish the dirt about…说别人的闲话 She is a notorious gossiper here, who is very fond of dishing the dirt about others.

她特别喜欢说别人的闲话，是我们这出了名的长舌妇。

Male is according to others actual age adds an uncle in front or of what go name other people, such others calculate do not want, also won't feel embarrassed reject you, concern cordially with mine on one hand, because my appearance still calculates the reason of audience of not let sb down,may be on one hand, person of absolutely large number accepts the handbill that I send very gladly, so others I want the job of 8 hours only 3 hours were finished, when placing the ground to spread out, a thing lets me is not flavor very in the heart.

男的就是依照别人实际年龄在前面加个大叔或者什么的去称呼别人，这样别人就算不想要，也不会不好意思拒绝你，一方面跟我的诚恳有关，一方面可能是因为我的长相还算对得起观众的原因吧，绝大数人都很乐意接受我发的传单，所以别人8个小时的任务我只要3个小时就完成了，摆地摊的时候，有一件事情让我心里很不是滋味。

Let us for a minute ignore the validity of their criticisms and opinions. If you always reject the opinions of others, they will stop giving you criticism and expressing to you their views. If you can magnanimously receive those criticisms and opinions, then your access to information will increase exponentially. Now, with regard to which pieces of information you choose to utilize, that is your choice.

我们暂且不论别人的批评和意见是否正确，如果你一概拒绝别人，那么别人以后就不会再次给你提出批评和意见；如果你能够宽容对待别人的批评和意见，那么，你的信息量就会成倍增加，筛选什么信息，由你自己决定。

I must live like an exile, if I approach near to people a hot terror seizes upon me, a fear that I may be subjected to the danger of letting my condition be observed - thus it has been during the past year which I spent in the country, commanded by my intelligent physician to spare my hearing as much as possible, in this almost meeting my natural disposition, although I sometimes ran counter to it yielding to my inclination for society, but what a humiliation when one stood beside me and heard a flute in the distance and I heard nothing, or someone heard the shepherd singing and again I heard nothing, such incidents brought me to the verge of despair, but little more and I would have put an end to my life - only art it was that withheld me, ah it seemed impossible to leave the world until I had produced all that I felt called upon me to produce, and so I endured this wretched existence - truly wretched, an excitable body which a sudden change can throw from the best into the worst state - Patience - it is said that I must now choose for my guide, I have done so, I hope my determination will remain firm to endure until it please the inexorable Parcae to bread the thread, perhaps I shall get better, perhaps not, I am prepared.

我不得不活着像个流放的人，要是我接近人群，恐惧就会涌上心头，唯恐别人发现我病情。半年来我就是这样过来的。一位高明的医生让我尽量避免使用听觉，而也差不多正合我愿，所以这半年来我一直呆在乡下。不过，有时我也会违背医嘱，忍不住想与别人交往，但是，当我旁边的人听到远处的笛声而我却什么都听不到，或是别人听到牧羊人的歌声而我又什么都听不到的时候，那是怎样一种屈辱的感觉啊！这些事情让我濒临崩溃，要不是对艺术的渴求制止了我，我差不多就要结束我的生命了。我知道没把我命里所有的作品都创造出来，我是不可能离开这个世界的，所以我忍受这痛苦的生活，真的痛苦啊！我的身体容易激动，突然有一点变化，就会一下子从最好变成最坏。我必须选择忍耐，别人这么说，我也这么做了。希望我有足够坚定的意志来承受苦难，直到无情的死神割断我的生命之线的那天。也许我的病会好转，也许不会，对此我都是有心理准备的。

Editor's note: A conte that sees accidentally lets me very suffer touch, a day, the woman asks a man, she asks why he is willing to help others, because help him others can feel very happy,he says, she says you help him others can get pleasure, that why do you want privative others to receive happy right?

编者按：无意间看到的一个小故事让我很受触动，一天，女人问男人，她问他为什么愿意帮助别人，他说因为帮助别人自己会感觉很快乐，她说你帮助别人自己可以得到快乐，那为什么你要剥夺别人得到快乐的权利呢？

Since the above six are self-sufficient man likes to do the job, and the pursuit of self-worth, feel self-care, personal space, respect for another's privacy, pay attention to personal style and taste, do not follow the crowd, there is awareness of the law of "80 After "will consciously dislike these acts: for example, talk to others for no reason," 80 after the "more agreeable to the West are more concerned about the self-opinion, very few non-Road, concerned about others; such as, enjoy preaching others," 80后" from an early age from schools, parents, etc. too much preaching, preaching and therefore acts very much, resulting in antagonistic, their attention; For instance, to belittle the advantages of others,"80 after" consider embodies self-worth is not to derogate others premise, the more The more derogatory of others to explain their value enough, are their attractions; For instance, smoking in the office,"after 80" would be a focus on self and respect for others the organic integration of generation, because these two are not always contradictory, if that "after 80" only know that take care of their own convenience, on the wrong; such as, the mentality of not enough sunlight,"80后" feel self-care, therefore, delighted to do anything on an individual basis or as a premise, we think that good , but their psychological upset, does not endorse, they will not act in accordance with the meaning of the U.S., the ultimate manifestation of personal values on the individual feel, are their characteristics; For instance, loud make personal phone calls,"80, after" personal space, respect for others Privacy, therefore, in a public office area will be less and less to see the "80 after" unscrupulous people talking about the workplace their own affairs, the concept of privacy, especially popular in this generation will be reflected in the workplace in the past.

因为，上述6条都是不够自我的职场中人喜欢做的，而追求自我价值、在乎自我感受、重视个人空间、尊重他人隐私、讲究个人风格与品味、不随波逐流、有法律意识的"80后"会自觉地不喜欢这些行为：比如，无端议论他人，"80后"比较认同西方人较为关注自我的观点，很少道人是非，关注别人的事；比如，喜欢说教别人，"80后"从小受到来自学校、家长等的太多说教，因此对说教行为很反感，从而产生逆反，自己注意；比如，贬低别人优势，"80后"认为体现自我价值不是以贬损别人为前提的，越贬损别人越说明自己的价值不够，是他们的过人之处；比如，在办公区吸烟，"80后"将是注重自我和尊重别人有机结合的一代，因为这两者始终不矛盾，如果认为"80后"只知道照顾自己的方便，就大错特错了；比如，心态不够阳光，"80后"在乎自我感受，因此，任何事情是以个人高兴与否作为前提的，大家觉得好，但自己心理不高兴、不认可，便不会根据大家的意思行事，个人价值最终体现在个人感受上，是他们的特点；比如，大声打私人电话，"80后"重视个人空间、尊重他人隐私，因此，在公共办公区将越来越少地看到"80后"职场人肆无忌惮地谈论自己的事情，隐私的概念在这一代特别流行，将会体现到职场中来。

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B、互访博客，推广要勤快，登陆你的新浪博客后多点击新浪博客首页推荐的博文，当你浏览别人发布的博文的时候系统自动记录你的到访，当然一定要登陆后再去逛别人的博客，这点好处就是你去别人的博客留下足迹，别人以及关注他的人也会看到你的来访，也会带来一些流量。

Remember, if we treat others in a friendly way, they will treat us in the same; if we treat others sourly, they will repay us tooth for tooth.

记住，如果我们对别人友好，别人就会对我们友好；如果我们对别人不礼貌，别人也会对我们以牙还牙。

Lugalbanda was a god and shepherd king of Uruk where he was worshipped for over a thousand years.

Lugalbanda 是神和被崇拜了一千年多 Uruk古埃及喜克索王朝国王。

I am coming just now,' and went on perfuming himself with Hunut, then he came and sat.

我来只是现在，'歼灭战perfuming自己与胡努特，那麼，他来到和SAT 。