依恋

Friendship is the same as the smell of potpourri, the milder, the more attractive and the even longer it lasts.

友谊和花香一样，还是淡一些比较好，越淡的香气越使人依恋，也越能持久。

Attachment theory, which is based on some very simple and obvious ideas, was development half a century ago by the psychoanalyst John Bowlby and has been extensively researched and extended since then.

同样，如果我们是不安全依恋的，我们也许不能表达适当的气愤，或在情境要求我们这样做时无法理直气壮表达我们的需求。

The problem is, when we push away or pull toward us, this is called attachment and aversion.

问题是，我们推开或者拉向我们的过程被称为依恋和嫌恶。

These findings suggest that reappraisal is an important way of influences of adult attachment on individual's SWB.

这些结果表明重新评价策略的使用是成人依恋关系影响个体主观幸福感的一个重要途径。

At the end of 1985, I expressed my attachment to it in a few Reminiscences.

在大轰炸中的伦敦，即使躺在地铁站台上过夜，我的心也驰向那座被护城河和垂杨柳围着的古城。1985年年底，我还在几篇《杂忆》里宣泄了自己对它的依恋。

As I was born in Russia and grew up in Rumania, with a Russian mother and Rumanian father, I never felt attached to a place and I could switch between different country dreams very easily.

因为我出生在俄罗斯而在罗马尼亚长大，拥有一个俄罗斯母亲和一个罗马尼亚父亲，所以我从来没感到过依恋某个地方，并能够在不同国家的梦想之间非常轻松地转换。

But, by degrees, watch-chains, necklaces, parti-colored scarfs, embroidered bodices, velvet vests, elegantly worked stockings, striped gaiters, and silver buckles for the shoes, all disappeared; and Gaspard Caderousse, unable to appear abroad in his pristine splendor, had given up any further participation in the pomps and vanities, both for himself and wife, although a bitter feeling of envious discontent filled his mind as the sound of mirth and merry music from the joyous revellers reached even the miserable hostelry to which he still clung, more for the shelter than the profit it afforded.

但渐渐地，表链呀，项圈呀，花色领巾呀，绣花乳褡呀，丝绒背心呀，做工精美的袜子呀，条纹扎脚套呀，以及鞋子上的银搭扣呀，都不见了，于是，葛司柏·卡德鲁斯，既然不能再穿着以前的华丽服装外出露面了，就和他的妻子不再到这些浮华虚荣的场合去了，但每听到那些兴高采烈的欢呼声以及愉快的音乐声传到这个可怜的客栈的时候，传到这个他现在还依恋着的只能算是一个庇身之所，根本谈不上赚钱的小地方的时候，他的心里也未尝不感到嫉妒和痛苦。

Quite different from fox's slyness or other animals' smartness, the specific characteristic reflected on tamed animal can be called human intelligence, which is not from inheritance or reasoning, but is from sympathy—a feeling mixed with love and attachment.

但驯化动物身上的这种可称为人类才智的东西，非常不同于狐狸的狡猾或动物的聪明。驯化动物的通情达理不是来自推理，也不是天生的，而是来自同情，来自一种爱和依恋的感觉。

Delving into the nuanced complexities of attachment and alienation, guilt and loss, with a strange idiosyncratic spareness of style that seemed both modernist and unique to contemporaries, he revisited the subject obsessively.

他以一种既具现代主义特征，又自成一派不拘一格的文风，仔细研究那微妙错综的依恋和疏离、负疚与失落等复杂情感，反复地以爱玛为主题做诗。

My lady hated Alicia for her frank, passionate, generous, daring nature; she hated her step-daughter, and clung to this pale-faced, pale-haired girl, whom she thought neither better nor worse than herself.

爵士夫人憎恨艾丽西亚天性坦率、热情、大方、敢作敢为；她憎恨她的干生女儿，依恋这脸蛋苍白、头发苍白的姑娘，她认为这姑娘不比她自己好，也不比她自己赖。

With Death guitarist Schuldiner adopting vocal duties, the band made a major impact on the scene.

随着死亡的吉他手Schuldiner接受主唱的职务，乐队在现实中树立了重要的影响。

But he could still end up breakfasting on Swiss-government issue muesli because all six are accused of nicking around 45 million pounds they should have paid to FIFA.

不过他最后仍有可能沦为瑞士政府&议事餐桌&上的一道早餐，因为这所有六个人都被指控把本应支付给国际足联的大约4500万英镑骗了个精光。