从那时以后

First of all, I want to make it clear that I've never tld somebady that I certainly will move to Tripos. It once happened at the second week that I arrived cause I thought the host sucks. And I didnt get along well with Natalie. Tripos has both you and Dingding, and Michelle- one of the only 3 friends I have here. And several weeks passed, I am not that sure anymore. You know me and Natalie are getting better and better. And Cloey kept telling me she cant promise me there will be a room available after Easter. Further more, I doubt if I have enough time to pack all of my staffs here. Even thinking about all of these makes me feel headache. And once I get back, just with Naatalie, I was only thinking about the good thing of living here. And at the time I was walking with you, all of the disadvantaged poped up. So I got confused. Not until today I havent made my mind. I dont know where did you get that so-called "every knew it, and I am the last to know" from. Even myself dont know what I/m ganna do, how come they knew?

首先我想说清楚~我从来没告诉过任何人我会住进Tripos~这第一发生在我到英国的第二个星期因为我觉得住宿家庭很恶心~而且那时我和Natalie还不能单独处得很自然~我在这惟独的三个朋友~你和丁丁还有Michelle住在Tripos~几个星期以后~我不再那么确定了~你知道我和Natalie相处得越来越好~Cloey也一直在告诉我她不能保证复活节假时会有空的房间~更多的是~我怀疑自己能否有足够的时间把我的行李都搬来~甚至在想这些所有的让我很头疼~有一次我和Natalie单独回来~我只想着住这的好处~但我和你走的时候~所有的不好的地方都突然出现~所以我很迷茫~不只今天我思考~我不知道你从哪里得出'每个人都知道~只有我最后才发现'结论~甚至我自己都不知道我该做些什么~他们怎么会知道？

I thank the gods for giving me such a brother, who was able by his moral character to rouse me to vigilance over myself, and who, at the same time, pleased me by his respect and affection; that my children have not been stupid nor deformed in body; that I did not make more proficiency in rhetoric, poetry, and the other studies, in which I should perhaps have been completely engaged, if I had seen that I was making progress in them; that I made haste to place those who brought me up in the station of honour, which they seemed to desire, without putting them off with hope of my doing it some time after, because they were then still young; that I knew Apollonius, Rusticus, Maximus; that I received clear and frequent impressions about living according to nature, and what kind of a life that is, so that, so far as depended on the gods, and their gifts, and help, and inspirations, nothing hindered me from forthwith living according to nature, though I still fall short of it through my own fault, and through not observing the admonitions of the gods, and, I may almost say, their direct instructions; that my body has held out so long in such a kind of life; that I never touched either Benedicta or Theodotus, and that, after having fallen into amatory passions, I was cured; and, though I was often out of humour with Rusticus, I never did anything of which I had occasion to repent; that, though it was my mother's fate to die young, she spent the last years of her life with me; that, whenever I wished to help any man in his need, or on any other occasion, I was never told that I had not the means of doing it; and that to myself the same necessity never happened, to receive anything from another; that I have such a wife, so obedient, and so affectionate, and so simple; that I had abundance of good masters for my children; and that remedies have been shown to me by dreams, both others, and against bloodspitting and giddiness...; and that, when I had an inclination to philosophy, I did not fall into the hands of any sophist, and that I did not waste my time on writers of histories, or in the resolution of syllogisms, or occupy myself about the investigation of appearances in the heavens; for all these things require the help of the gods and fortune.

我感谢神明给了我这样一个兄弟，他能以他的道德品格使我警醒，同时又以他的尊重和柔情使我愉悦；感谢神明使我的孩子既不愚笨又不残废，使我并不熟谙修辞、诗歌和别的学问，假如我看到自己在这些方面取得进展的话，本来有可能完全沉醉于其中的；我感谢神明使我迅速地给予了那些培养我的人以他们看来愿意有的荣誉，而没有延宕他们曾对我寄予的愿我以后这样做的期望（因为他们那时还是年轻的）；我感谢神明使我认识了阿珀洛尼厄斯、拉斯蒂克斯、马克西默斯，这使我对按照自然生活，对那种依赖神灵及他们的恩赐、帮助和灵感而过的生活得到了清晰而巩固的印象，没有什么东西阻止我立即按照自然生活，然而我还是因为自己的过错，因为没有注意到神灵的劝告（我几乎还可以说是他们的直接指示）而没有达到它；我的身体置于这样一种生活之外如此之久，我从未达到本尼迪克特或西奥多图斯的高度，但在陷入情欲之后，我还是被治愈了；虽然我常常达不到拉斯蒂克斯的那种气质，但还是没有做过使我悔恨的事情；虽然我母亲不能尽其天年而终，但她最后的年月是与我在一起的；在我希望帮助任何需要帮助的人的时候，或在任何别的场合，我都不感到我缺乏这样做的手段；而对我自己来说却不会有同样的需要：即需要从别人那里得到的东西；我有一个十分温顺、深情和朴实的妻子；我有许多优秀的教师来教育我的孩子；通过梦和其他办法，我发现各种药物来治疗咯血和头昏……当我有一种对哲学的爱好时，我没有落入任何诡辩家之手，没有在历史作品上，或者在三段论法的解决上浪费时间，也没有专注于探究天国的现象；而上面所有这些事情都要求有神灵和命运的帮助。

Also from the mid-18th century, Parisians realized the importance of taking a bath, when Paris has gradually built more than a dozen public bathhouses.

也是从18世纪中叶以后，巴黎人才认识到洗澡的重要性，那时巴黎已陆续建起了十几家公共浴室。

The split between the two groups can hardly be papered over.

这两个团体间的分歧难以掩饰。

This approach not only encourages a greater number of responses, but minimizes the likelihood of stale groupthink.

这种做法不仅鼓励了更多的反应，而且减少跟风的可能性。