不自私的

The chief route advocated by this sutra is the extirpation of the negative mental states and immoral modes of behavior (including selfish desire, hatred, ignorance, avarice, and wrong livelihood - such as being a soldier or killer of animals), the cultivation of the paramitas (moral perfections, such as generosity, and meditation), the leading of a pure and harmless life, faithful study, practice and veneration of the Mahaparinirvana Sutra, and the constant meditative cultivation of the idea of the Buddha's eternity, unchangeability and indestructibility.

这个佛经建议的主要路线是消灭负面的心理状态和不道德的行为模式（包括自私的欲望，仇恨，无知，贪婪，和错误的方式-比如做士兵或猎人），波罗蜜的文化（道德的完善，如慷慨和冥想），过纯粹和无害的生活，忠实的学习，实践和尊敬大般若涅磐经，不断的冥想佛永恒的观念的修炼，不变的和不灭的。

I've never known such a selfish person, he's real dog in the manger.

我从来没见过这么自私的家伙，他真是占了茅厕不拉屎的人。

Not in a selfish way, but in a paradigmatic way: we treat others as we treat ourselves or would like to be treated.

但不是以自私的方式，比如：我们要像对待自己一般对待别人，或是你希望自己怎样被对待，就要以同样的方式对待别人。

If you put yourself in his place, you will not think that he is selfish.

若站在他的位置上想想，你就不会认为他是自私的了。

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每一年，我都更加相信生命的浪费是在于：我们没有献出爱，我们没有使用力量，我们表现出自私的谨慎，不去冒险，避开痛苦，也失去了快乐。

Think me arrogant, self-serving, whatever you wish, it will change nothing.

想我傲慢的﹐自私的，无论你愿什麼，它将什麼也不改变。

You're not being selfish, you're being honest...

你不是自私的，你是诚实的。

He is a selfish person. You can't expect too much from him.

他是个自私的人，你不能对他有太多的指望。

He is a selfish man as he doesn't care about my feelings.

他是个自私的男人，不关心我的感受。

Those who disagree and want to act selfishly can leave.....

那些不同意的和变现出自私的人可以离开了。

But we don't care about Battlegrounds.

但我们并不在乎沙场中的显露。

Ah! don't mention it, the butcher's shop is a horror.

啊！不用提了。提到肉，真是糟透了。