不自私地

I am not concerned here with the psychology of motives. I am not going to argue about whether people who behave altruistically are 'really' doing it for secret or subconscious selfish motives.

这里我的旨趣不在动机的心理学方面，我不准备去论证人们在做出利他行为时，是否"真的"私下或下意识地抱有自私的动机。

Some, perhaps, may simply be intercepting water for one user that would otherwise have gone to another, but almost every country could reduce its evaporation losses by capturing water and delivering it more effectively to the farmer, bather, drinker or manufacturer—and then, ideally, using it again.

有些国家也许只是出于自私的目的将水拦截，不让水流向其他国家，但几乎每一个国家都可以通过集水和提高输水效率的办法减少水的蒸发损失，使水能够高效地用于灌溉、洗浴、饮用及制造产品，更理想的是，能够循环利用这些水资源。

And the meanwhile, I know the some youngmen lack a sense of responsibility, they even seem selfish. They afraid the chid would make the life trouble, and large amounts of money would spent on their child and they can not buy everything they want freely like before.

与此同时，我也知道有一些年轻人缺失一种责任感，甚至是自私，他们恐惧自己的生活被破坏，也害怕孩子会花掉很多钱以至于不能让他们随心所欲地买各式东西。

They afraid the chid would make the life trouble, and large amounts of money would spent on their child and they can not buy everything they want freely like before. As a youngman who was born in a single child family, these would be nightmare.

与此同时，我也知道有一些年轻人缺失一种责任感，甚至是自私，他们恐惧自己的生活被破坏，也害怕孩子会花掉很多钱以至于不能让他们随心所欲地买各式东西。

It was just so with my Joe -- always full of his devilment, and up to every kind of mischief, but he was just as unselfish and kind as he could be -- and laws bless me, to think I went and whipped him for taking that cream, never once recollecting that I throwed it out myself because it was sour, and I never to see him again in this world, never, never, never, poor abused boy!

可他不自私，心眼好。天哪！想起揍他的事，我就难过。我以为他偷吃了奶酪，不分青红皂白地拿鞭子抽了他一顿，压根没想到是奶酪酸了，我亲手倒掉的。好了，这下子，我别想活着见到他了，永远、永远、永远也见不着了。这个可怜的、受尽虐待的孩子啊！

Taiwan dare to face up to one's own old the eye of father, fear catch father coarse hand of her, because this makes her remember one's own the past that cannot bear to look back on and one's own one heartlessly and selfishness, she throws father's hands away very heavily, has run quickly.

台湾不敢正视自己苍老的父亲的那一双眼睛，恐惧抓住她的父亲粗糙的手，因为这使她想起自己的不堪回首的过去和自己的狠心与自私，她重重地甩开父亲的手，飞快地跑了。

I pray that I may not spend it all selfishly.

我祈祷我可以不自私地享用。

I have no idea whether I am timid, grudging, or selfish; just many one-sentences have gradually absorbed more and more humidity from time and sunk deeper and deeper into my heart, getting more and more difficult to stand by.

我不清楚是我胆怯，不忍心，不舍得，还是自私。渐渐地很多一句话吸收了水分，越来越往心里沉，越来越难stand by。

More importantly, women born after 80 Namedianer a little selfish, they will not to the beloved men, spend an afternoon time to burn what nutrition Liang Tang, not to the beloved men, sitting The warm afternoon sunshine, a caring hand-knit sweater, this thing, in their view it is a very boring, they think it is time for the murder, because in the store to buy sweaters and hand-knit sweaters Is the same, the final purpose is the same, or even buy the store, hand-knit than some of the more attractive, so they will not blindly basic waste of time.

更重要的，是80后出生的女子有那么点儿小小的自私，她们不会为了心爱的男人，花上一个下午的时间去煲什么营养靓汤，更不会为了心爱的男人，坐在午后暖暖的阳光里，手工编织一件爱心毛衣，这样的事儿，在她们看来那是无聊之极，她们认为那是在谋杀时间，因为在商店里买到的毛衣和手工编织的毛衣是一样的，最后的用途都是相等的，甚至商店里买到的，会比手工编织的更精美一些，所以她们基本不会盲目地浪费时间。

Deep autumn of setting sun, that low hill that go to many year agos of timespace pullouts, I am in setting sun the 静静 lookings at the remaining 辉, soon the small grass that wither away at nearby float shake, do not know is that tree ascends the leaf that drop down, from my in front float, I want to stretch hand to hold tight it, I want that again see it float the zero body the 姿, wanting to use my heart 暖 it the lifetime, but I have no, I did not stretch hand, selfish I let it is from I nearby float walk, a remaining for leaving I first individual being fond of 茫 lookinging at setting sun reflects shine on the earth, breeze not tight not slowly blow, the distant place spread the mineral area the broadcast in of song, break continuously and continuously come right away my ear the beside," probably tomorrow the sun the west descends the tired bird have returned, you will already step on old hour of the way home, life rare look for again mutually the companion that know, life finally difficult give up the very blue white cloud a remaining for" I in such deep autumn, setting sun in deep autumn I remembering this a few lyricses, autumnal winds bringing doing not calculate wonderful singing, however taking foliar feeling in autumn, setting sun reflect shine on my face, however the 勾 has the much more several remembering fondly.

深秋的夕阳，把时空拉回到多年前的那个山岗，我在夕阳里静静的看着余辉，快要枯萎的小草在身边飘摇，不知道是那棵树上掉下来的叶子，从我面前飘过，我想伸手去抓住它，我想再一次看看它飘零的身姿，想用我的心暖它一辈子，可是我没有，我没有伸手，自私的我让它从我身边飘走了，只留下我一个人迷茫的看着夕阳的余辉映照着大地，风不紧不慢地吹着，远处传来了矿区广播里的歌曲，断断续续的就来到我的耳旁，&或许明日太阳西下倦鸟已归时，你将已经踏上旧时的归途，人生难得再寻觅相知的伴侣，生命终究难舍蓝蓝的白云天&我在这样的深秋，在深秋的夕阳里我记住了这几句歌词，秋风带来不算美妙的歌声，却带走了秋叶的情，夕阳的余辉映照着我的脸，却勾起了几多的思念。

The split between the two groups can hardly be papered over.

这两个团体间的分歧难以掩饰。

This approach not only encourages a greater number of responses, but minimizes the likelihood of stale groupthink.

这种做法不仅鼓励了更多的反应，而且减少跟风的可能性。