不自私

I am not concerned here with the psychology of motives. I am not going to argue about whether people who behave altruistically are 'really' doing it for secret or subconscious selfish motives.

这里我的旨趣不在动机的心理学方面，我不准备去论证人们在做出利他行为时，是否"真的"私下或下意识地抱有自私的动机。

In Taiwan, the "insect" that can survive most easily is baddy, rather than cockroach. As Chinese are selfish and afraid of being involved, they will prefer pretending to sleep as long as they themselves are not the targets of the murderers.

在台湾，最容易生存的不是蝉螂，而是"坏人"，因为中国人怕事、自私，只要不杀到他床上去，他宁可闭着眼假寐。

These days I see graft and corruption reach high into government.

这些日子我目睹贪污腐败在政府机构甚嚣尘上；这些日子我看到人们害怕被视为信仰异端邪说、对上帝不忠而不敢坦言心声；这些日子我发觉美国越来越沉溺于物质享受，却越来越疏离于道德标准；这些日子我眼见美国偏离基督教的信仰，在海外的所作所为使其沦为一个傲慢、自私、贪婪、只对武器和金钱感兴趣的国家……而不关注国民及其希望与追求；这些日子我越来越回想起父亲的话。

I did not accuse you of just how ruthless, how ungrateful , how the play fast and loose, because a woman my age, long overdue ...69, it was said that he would not put money out to buy a house used by Haiping is selfish , in fact, to me, and also can not do,...

我不 去指责你有多么的无情，多么的忘恩负义，多么的朝三暮四，因为到我这个年纪的女人，早就该。。。 69、有人说他不肯把钱拿出来借海萍买房用就是自私，其实，要我，也是做不到的，。。。

Mom and Dad do not want to see you to learn from bad, to become bad guys, so not only me and my mother is a failure, but we are sinners; selfish mom and dad do not want you to abide by the principle of moments remembered villains revenge, father and mother love you heart tree driven by the father and mother do not want to read about you all the bad news.

爸爸妈妈不希望看到你学坏，成为坏人，那样不仅我和妈妈是失败的，而且我们也是罪人；自私爸爸妈妈也不希望你恪守原则，时刻的被坏人惦记报复，爸爸妈妈那棵爱你的心驱使着爸爸妈妈不希望看到关于你一切不好的消息。

If some people do for their own selfish and sophistry, i do not know if the evaluation of them, but i can understand that, we do not like the people at heart, and that people may not like his own have .

如果有的人为了自己的自私而做狡辩的话，我不知道如果评价他们，但是我能够明白的是，大家打心底都不喜欢这种人，而且那种人自己都有可能不喜欢自己。

K, so Marion is insecure, selfish at times, didn't always get it, wasn't as physically, mentally and defensively tough in the playoffs as his fraternity would've like a four-time All-Star to be, can't create his own shot, groused about not getting enough touches, appreciation and a long-term max extension.

k，如你所知，Marion有时候没有安全感，有时候会自私，在季后赛里面不能够做到精神上，身体上，防守上很tough，和他的四届全明星不太相称，不能单打，希望得到更多的持球时间和欣赏，希望签下长期的顶薪合同。

I have no idea whether I am timid, grudging, or selfish; just many one-sentences have gradually absorbed more and more humidity from time and sunk deeper and deeper into my heart, getting more and more difficult to stand by.

我不清楚是我胆怯，不忍心，不舍得，还是自私。渐渐地很多一句话吸收了水分，越来越往心里沉，越来越难stand by。

A man is not bad, Tian Long Ba Bu game music, women do not love, it do not mean a bad-hearted vicious, selfish and heartless or something.

男人不坏，天龙八部游戏音乐，女人不爱，这坏不是指心肠狠毒，自私无情什么的。

More importantly, women born after 80 Namedianer a little selfish, they will not to the beloved men, spend an afternoon time to burn what nutrition Liang Tang, not to the beloved men, sitting The warm afternoon sunshine, a caring hand-knit sweater, this thing, in their view it is a very boring, they think it is time for the murder, because in the store to buy sweaters and hand-knit sweaters Is the same, the final purpose is the same, or even buy the store, hand-knit than some of the more attractive, so they will not blindly basic waste of time.

更重要的，是80后出生的女子有那么点儿小小的自私，她们不会为了心爱的男人，花上一个下午的时间去煲什么营养靓汤，更不会为了心爱的男人，坐在午后暖暖的阳光里，手工编织一件爱心毛衣，这样的事儿，在她们看来那是无聊之极，她们认为那是在谋杀时间，因为在商店里买到的毛衣和手工编织的毛衣是一样的，最后的用途都是相等的，甚至商店里买到的，会比手工编织的更精美一些，所以她们基本不会盲目地浪费时间。

The split between the two groups can hardly be papered over.

这两个团体间的分歧难以掩饰。

This approach not only encourages a greater number of responses, but minimizes the likelihood of stale groupthink.

这种做法不仅鼓励了更多的反应，而且减少跟风的可能性。