不现实的

She asked me whether she was a bad girl and whether it's weird to date an old man his age, she added she might have electra complex, well, no, I see nothing wrong with the age gap, as I think most women want maturity in a man being that we as women mature pretty fast, as well as the stability in men, for myself, I am also looking for an older man who is understanding, patient, mature and can take good care of me, as I hate the feeling of being a baby-sitter to look after my other half, however, the one hasn't showed up yet to the date, I am not that picky, I think just because my circle is so narrow, without any chance to meet people, I hope the day to meet my old man will be coming soon, here the old man doesn't mean those 50 to 70 years old, I would say most people feel comfortable within 10 year range, give or take.

如果三个男人是同一人，那便是女人梦寐以求的幸福，所以虽然本姑娘已经年纪一大把了，偶尔发呆的时候还是会对这个有些幻想有些憧憬有些期盼。虽然自己的幻想或许与现实相抵触，但仍然幻想，虽然自己心里说要求不高，但在这个都是好男人都已经属於别人的社会环境中，自己的要求也算相当高！其实我就希望：他必须经济稳定，房子车子儿子的费用要归他开销。家用如果他能全部负担是最好，不行我也可以承担。我自己赚得钱用於我所有的女性开销，比如化妆品，服饰，旅游，或者跟朋友们出去玩。婚姻不是爱情的坟墓吗？所以他只要能温柔地对待我，偶尔会搞点小浪漫就好。看起来不高，但现实生活中就是没办法实现。再者，重申一下，这绝非拜金行为，而是现实主义者的主张。

Chinese people fellow the ideal of Confucius and Confucianism from ancient and they had a blue print to manage national affairs. Woefully, they didn't consider whether the realistic society would be coordinated with the ideal systems but just ponderously imposed the society with them. The reality is always changing while Chinese are not good at accuracy.

就是中国自古以来，就承袭了孔子的理想，儒家的理想，有一个治国的方案，但是就硬把它加在社会现实上面，完全不考虑社会现实是不是能够配合一个理想的秩序，而这个现实往往是变动的，但是中国人又是出了名的不精确。

Pillared montmorillonite, as a representative of Sandwich like pillared interlayered clays ,caught many scientist's attention not only because of its special structure of two-dimensional sheets but also its excellent activity of catalysis and adsorption. It is well documented that the method to prepare PILM, ion-exchanging, needed a long periods and was affected by many factors, and that the product had low thermal stability especially hydro-thermal stability which was the primary obstruction of its using in large-scale production. At the same time, PILM was well documented prepared with Na-montmorillonite, while there were a few documents about PILM prepared with Ca-montmorillonite. The large cost of remodel of Ca-montmorillonite to Na-montmorillonite was another obstacle of the application of PILM, while Ca-montmorillonite was widely distributed in nature, as a result, to prepare PILM with Ca-montmorillonite has practical significance. What's more, PILM was mainly studied as a catalyst in oil refinin g process till now, but rarely documented in other catalysis reactions, especially in coal liquification filed which also needed high activity catalyst.

以柱撑蒙脱石为代表的具有"三明治"结构的柱撑粘土矿物因其特殊的二维孔道结构和优良的催化和吸附性能近年来成为国内外广泛关注和研究的热点，但是目前国内外大量报道的PILM制备大多采用离子交换法，生产周期很长，影响因素很多，并且产物热稳定性不够高，特别是水热稳定性较差，这是其不能在实际中大规模生产和应用的主要障碍，因此制备一种高稳定性的PILM意义非常；文献中大量报道的都是钠基蒙脱石合成的柱撑粘土矿物，传统的离子交换法必须将钙基蒙脱石钠化改型，其成本相当高，而自然界中大量存在的却是钙基蒙脱石，直接用钙基蒙脱石合成柱撑粘土矿物有很现实的意义，但目前这方面的报道却很少见；另外，迄今为止，PILM作为催化剂的研究领域主要在石油的炼制中应用，而在煤炭的液化中却鲜有报道，如果能在煤炭转化领域应用这一成果，其影响也将是相当大的。

The educational technology has the very intense practical orientation, but because this practical orientation is too powerful, it causes the researchers of educational technology can be unable to stop to think some basic theory questions, and be far away from asking educational technology some ultimate questions about educational technology. So it has caused that afer semicentennial developing educational technology still exit some questions such as confusing, the reality helpless, deficient theory, although it has obtained many encouraging performance, but it is unsuitable that educational technology is the commanding point of education reform and the breach status. Facing these conditions, educational technology needs carry on reviewing and looking up in historical and reality multiple field, needs integrate and conclude for obtained studying results, needs reflect on own level, and need to have the big breakthrough in the discipline elementary theory construction.

教育技术具有非常强的实践价值取向，但这种实践取向的过于强大往往使得教育技术的研究者们无法停下来思考本领域一些基本的理论问题，因此直接导致了教育技术学在经历了半个多世纪的学科建设历程之后，尽管取得了诸多可喜的成绩，但是依旧存在理论与实践研究的诸多问题，这对于面临新技术的发展和世界范围的教育改革浪潮而给予的教育技术作为教育改革的制高点和突破口的地位是极不相称的，教育技术学迫切需要在历史与现实的多重视野中进行回顾与前瞻，对已经获得研究成果进行综合和归纳，需要对学科自身进行深层次反思。

There are some main conclusions of the article. 1.Enterprise inclines to decision-making according to its profit, so constituting and anglicizing green institutions from the view of enterprise will advantage their microcosmic base, then can improve their adaptive abilities and green effects. 2.Government has powers and some potential advantages, but it inheres of some defects, so it should not become the principle parter but the urger, waiter and superintendent of the green transition process. 3.According to social cost and the situation of the social environment, we should adopt a gradual transition stratagem on the whole in the process. 4.We can classify the enterprise green transition into three kinds by the dominant factor in the push-drag-model, push-dominant mode, drag-dominant mode and friction-tight state. Different green policies should giveto different transition mode in odor to getting a good green effect. 5.The costs of enterprise have three levels by the point of view of sustainable development, apparent cost in generation, dormant cost in generation and intergenerational cost. The priority of green system should adjust to the level to which the benefits of the enterprise amount.

本文得出的主要结论有：1、企业具有相机决策的倾向，从企业的角度分析和制定绿色制度可以使政策具有较强的微观基础，进而可以提高它的适应性和绿色效果。2、政府具有暴力潜能，也具有固有的不足，在绿色制度变迁的过程中应该且只能是倡导者、服务者、监督与维护者，而不是主体参与者。3、综合考虑社会成本与社会环境，渐进式的总体推进模式是我国目前较为现实的选择。4、本文建立了企业绿色变迁推拉模型，并根据促使企业绿色转变的主导因素的不同，将企业绿色变迁的模式分为拉力主导型、推力主导型与摩擦状态三种类型，不同的类型应采取不同的绿色政策才能收到良好的绿色效果。5、从可持续发展的角度可以将企业的生产成本分为代内隐性成本、代内显性成本和代际成本三个层次，对于收益处于不同层次的企业，绿色制度的侧重点应有所不同。6、根据企业与政府在绿色制度变迁过程中所起的作用的不同可以将绿色制度变迁分为强制供给型、政府导向型、需求诱导型三种模式。

However, because nature as a category slips into different cultural forms, once when it involves what is the character of the human being and all things on earth, different culture has different answers only because the different suppose to the value of the culture and the ideal, the humanity in this side is exaggerated in the culture form, even being considered the only arche existence, so once a man living in reality manifests the humanity according with a certain value of culture and the ideal designed by man, he would be considered natural and authentic by the public who believe in it, otherwise, artificial and affected.

如上所述，每一种文化都是基于人性的某一方面而人为设定自己的文化价值和理想的，作为文化价值和理想，人性的这一方面在这一文化形态中当然被夸大了，甚至被认为是人性中的唯一的本真存在。这样一来，现实中的人一旦表现出与某一文化人为设定的文化价值和理想相符合的人性维面，就会被这一文化及其信奉这一文化的公众认为是自然的、真实的，反之则是做作的、不自然的。

The line places thoroughly namely if with us person of Heibei laborious collect says be troubled by old~!But the jest in the human association with these buckish and Bacchic loose to mixing styles,we are indistinct saw neutral of even if film"overrun"but those who communicate is those sexes that are afoundation with love,perhaps be fundamental love with the gender,a variety of patting the result that drag,it is at least in afew kisses,exuding tenderness and love through eyes saw true love in afew dialogs,saw that situation of the intention.The film of Bmerican clique series exaggerated of purpose the to the gender understanding that those resemble our euqally big children in the Western Hemisphere and fumble,although be exaggerated,but mix after all the circumstance conform to of those Bmerican reality,believe to be in what had been our country learns in much and not been for the student of the college,but that is miserable in the ear that the thing has passed parents~!

但是在这些浮华喧闹的派对和荒诞乖张的人际交往中的笑话，我们隐隐约约观到了即便影片中性的&泛滥成灾&但是传达的是那些以爱为基础的性，或者以性为基础的爱，种种拍拖的结果，至少在一些吻中，含情脉脉一些对话中观到了真爱，观到了专心的那份情美国派系列的电影有意的夸大了那些在西半球像我们一样大的孩子们的对于性的认识和摸索，虽是夸大，但是究竟和美国那些现实的情况相符，相信在我们国家大部分中学和高校的学生来说已经不算是什么了，但是事情已经传到父母的耳朵里那就惨了~！

Pillared montmorillonite, as a representative of Sandwich like pillared interlayered clays ,caught many scientist"s attention not only because of its special structure of two-dimensional sheets but also its excellent activity of catalysis and adsorption. It is well documented that the method to prepare PILM, ion-exchanging, needed a long periods and was affected by many factors, and that the product had low thermal stability especially hydro-thermal stability which was the primary obstruction of its using in large-scale production. At the same time, PILM was well documented prepared with Na-montmorillonite, while there were a few documents about PILM prepared with Ca-montmorillonite. The large cost of remodel of Ca-montmorillonite to Na-montmorillonite was another obstacle of the application of PILM, while Ca-montmorillonite was widely distributed in nature, as a result, to prepare PILM with Ca-montmorillonite has practical significance. What"s more, PILM was mainly studied as a catalyst in oil refining process till now, but rarely documented in other catalysis reactions, especially in coal liquification filed which also needed high activity catalyst.

以柱撑蒙脱石为代表的具有&三明治&结构的柱撑粘土矿物因其特殊的二维孔道结构和优良的催化和吸附性能近年来成为国内外广泛关注和研究的热点，但是目前国内外大量报道的PILM制备大多采用离子交换法，生产周期很长，影响因素很多，并且产物热稳定性不够高，特别是水热稳定性较差，这是其不能在实际中大规模生产和应用的主要障碍，因此制备一种高稳定性的PILM意义非常；文献中大量报道的都是钠基蒙脱石合成的柱撑粘土矿物，传统的离子交换法必须将钙基蒙脱石钠化改型，其成本相当高，而自然界中大量存在的却是钙基蒙脱石，直接用钙基蒙脱石合成柱撑粘土矿物有很现实的意义，但目前这方面的报道却很少见；另外，迄今为止，PILM作为催化剂的研究领域主要在石油的炼制中应用，而在煤炭的液化中却鲜有报道，如果能在煤炭转化领域应用这一成果，其影响也将是相当大的。

Pillared montmorillonite, as a representative of Sandwich like pillared interlayered clays ,caught many scientist's attention not only because of its special structure of two-dimensional sheets but also its excellent activity of catalysis and adsorption. It is well documented that the method to prepare PILM, ion-exchanging, needed a long periods and was affected by many factors, and that the product had low thermal stability especially hydro-thermal stability which was the primary obstruction of its using in large-scale production. At the same time, PILM was well documented prepared with Na-montmorillonite, while there were a few documents about PILM prepared with Ca-montmorillonite. The large cost of remodel of Ca-montmorillonite to Na-montmorillonite was another obstacle of the application of PILM, while Ca-montmorillonite was widely distributed in nature, as a result, to prepare PILM with Ca-montmorillonite has practical significance. What's more, PILM was mainly studied as a catalyst in oil refinin g process till now, but rarely documented in other catalysis reactions, especially in coal liquification filed which also needed high activity catalyst.

以柱撑蒙脱石为代表的具有&三明治&结构的柱撑粘土矿物因其特殊的二维孔道结构和优良的催化和吸附性能近年来成为国内外广泛关注和研究的热点，但是目前国内外大量报道的PILM制备大多采用离子交换法，生产周期很长，影响因素很多，并且产物热稳定性不够高，特别是水热稳定性较差，这是其不能在实际中大规模生产和应用的主要障碍，因此制备一种高稳定性的PILM意义非常；文献中大量报道的都是钠基蒙脱石合成的柱撑粘土矿物，传统的离子交换法必须将钙基蒙脱石钠化改型，其成本相当高，而自然界中大量存在的却是钙基蒙脱石，直接用钙基蒙脱石合成柱撑粘土矿物有很现实的意义，但目前这方面的报道却很少见；另外，迄今为止，PILM作为催化剂的研究领域主要在石油的炼制中应用，而在煤炭的液化中却鲜有报道，如果能在煤炭转化领域应用这一成果，其影响也将是相当大的。

The fact leads to the reality, where all our agitations come from.

我们必须面对现实，我们所有的不安都是来自不面对现实，现实是—我们不是一个国家，我们没有主权独立，只有内政独立，我们的军队，是名符其实的自慰队。

The split between the two groups can hardly be papered over.

这两个团体间的分歧难以掩饰。

This approach not only encourages a greater number of responses, but minimizes the likelihood of stale groupthink.

这种做法不仅鼓励了更多的反应，而且减少跟风的可能性。