不和蔼

For a handsome and not an unamiable-looking man, he repelled me exceedingly: there was no power in that smooth-skinned face of a full oval shape; no firmness in that aquiline nose and small cherry mouth; there was no thought on the low, even forehead; no command in that blank, brown eye.

这样一个漂亮而且看来也并非不和蔼的男人，却使我极为讨厌。在那光滑的鹅蛋形脸蛋上没有魄力；在那个鹰钩鼻和那张樱桃小口上缺少坚毅；在那低平的额头上没有思想；在那空洞的褐色眼睛里没有控制力。

For a handsome and not an unamiable-looking man, he repelled me exceedingly: there was no power in that smooth-skijaed face of a full oval shape: no firmness in that aquiline nose and small cherry mouth; there was no thought on the low, even forehead; no command in that blank, brown eye.

这样一个漂亮而且看来也并非不和蔼的男人，却使我极为讨厌。在那光滑的鹅蛋形脸蛋上没有魄力；在那个鹰钩鼻和那张樱桃小口上缺少坚毅；在那低平的额头上没有思想；在那空洞的褐色眼睛里没有控制力。

They say he is a pitiless , cold - blooded fellow , with no geniality In him

他们说他是个毫无怜悯心，一点也不和蔼的冷血动物

To me he was cordial and kind, saying nothing of my escapade , either in the way of blame or praise.

他对我亲切而又和蔼，只字不提我逃跑的事，既不责备也不表扬。

In avoiding an unpleasant conversation, they allow something worse to ferment in the delay. They achieve kindness in the short term but heartlessness in the long run, dooming the problem employee to nonimprovement.

为了避免不太令人愉快的谈话，他们在拖延中令事态不断恶化，在短期内获得了为人和蔼的名声，长此下去却有无情之嫌，因为问题员工在这样领导的带领下不会有任何长进。

Mr. Vernon, I think, was a great deal too kind to her when he was in Staffordshire; her behaviour to him, independent of her general character, has been so inexcusably artful and ungenerous since our marriage was first in agitation that no one less amiable and mild than himself could have overlooked it all; and though, as his brother's widow, and in narrow circumstances, it was proper to render her pecuniary assistance, I cannot help thinking his pressing invitation to her to visit us at Churchhill perfectly unnecessary.

Vernon先生，我认为哦，在Staffordshire的时候，对她实在是太好了。从我们的婚姻第一次陷入动荡起，她在他面前的率性而为，无拘无束，真是令人无法原谅，狡猾又不厚道。不及他亲切和蔼的人，根本不能完全看清这样行为。尽管，由于他兄弟的寡妇（这里指的是写信来的Susan女士），生活贫困，我们应该给她点资助。我还是不禁认为，他邀请她来Churchhill拜访我们，完全没必要。

Here is Bill Jukes, every inch of him tattooed, the same Bill Jukes who got six dozen on the WALRUS from Flint before he would drop the bag of moidores ; and Cookson, said to be Black Murphy's brother, and Gentleman Starkey, once an usher in a public school and still dainty in his ways of killing; and Skylights (Morgan's Skylights); and the Irish bo'sun Smee, an oddly genial man who stabbed, so to speak, without offence, and was the only Non-conformist in Hook's crew; and Noodler, whose hands were fixed on backwards; and Robt.

接着是比尔·鸠克斯，浑身上下都刺满了花纹，就是那个在海象号船上被弗林特砍了七十二刀才丢下金币袋的比尔·鸠克斯。还有库克森，据说是黑默菲的兄弟。还有绅士斯塔奇，曾在一所中学当过助理教员，杀起人来，还是文质彬彬的。还有"天窗"。还有爱尔兰水手长斯密，他是个特别和蔼的人，他就是捅人家一刀，也不会得罪人家；在胡克的水手班中，他是唯一不信国教的。还有努得勒，他老爱背剪着手。

She knew that the kindliness indicated a lack of fear, and that these people had no respect for you unless you could frighten them a little.

她知道这种和蔼的原因，是因为她不使人惧怕。她也知道，如果你不使这些人有点怕你，他们是不会尊敬你的。

To sum up, do in Rome as Romans do, but you need not worry about these cultural barriers since most Chinese are hospitable and amiable and will not mind your nonproficiency.

总之，入乡随俗，但你也不必对这些文化障碍担心，因为大多数中国人都是好客和和蔼的，他们不会介意你的不熟悉。

To sum up, do in Rome as Rome does, but you need not worry about these cultural barriers since most Chinese are hospitable and amiable and will not mind your nonproficiency.

总之，入乡随俗，但你也不必对这些文化障碍担心，因为大多数中国人都是好客和和蔼的，他们不会介意你的不熟

The split between the two groups can hardly be papered over.

这两个团体间的分歧难以掩饰。

This approach not only encourages a greater number of responses, but minimizes the likelihood of stale groupthink.

这种做法不仅鼓励了更多的反应，而且减少跟风的可能性。