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This should be obvious but it's worth highlighting how damaging this is, because the son is very likely to bring up the topic with his wife, says Apter.

这应该是显而易见的，但值得强调这是多么有害，因为儿子很可能会把这个话题跟他的妻子说，阿普特说。

Learning to Get Along With In-Laws, Apter says most in-law problems can be traced back to unspoken but conflicting expectations and assumptions.

学习如何与姻亲相处》中，阿普特说，大多数的姻亲问题不明说，但在假设之中。

It's the disappointment felt by both women that "gives these relationships their distinctive negative charge," Apter says.

"双方都感到失望，"给予这些关系独特的负面影响，阿普特说。

If you find that your mother-in-law is interfering too much, or visiting too often, or offering too much advice, don't put off talking to her about it, says Apter.

如果您的婆婆干涉太多，或尝尝来探访，或提供太多的建议，不要推迟谈论她，阿普特说。

Italian courts found this evidence so compelling that they have ruled that a wife has the right to a legal separation if her husband is not effective in preventing his mother from "invading" their home, Apter says.

意大利的法院发现这个证据如此令人信服，他们裁定，妻子有权分居，如果她的丈夫不能有效地防止他的母亲"入侵"他们的家，阿普特说。

In some respects, Apter says, the ensuing jockeying for position has a lot of similarities to the games "mean girls" play in middle-school hallways.

在某些方面，阿普特说，随后的对地位的争夺，很多与电影"贱女孩"中女孩们在中学走廊中玩的游戏相似。

Instead, says Apter,"mothers should assume that they will need to negotiate" a new way of communicating with their sons.

相反，阿普特说，"母亲应认为，她们将需要沟通"。

As this quote aptly says, practicing compassion can make both others and you happy.

像这句话里讲述的一样，同情心可以让你和别人都幸福。

"We like to think the bronzes were being carried into Brindisi," says Giuseppe Andreassi, archaeological superintendent of Apulia, who believes that the boat was caught in a storm sometime between the third and sixth centuries A.D.

"我们认为这些青铜是运往布林迪斯的，"阿普利亚的考古负责人吉瑟皮·安德阿斯说。他认为船在公元三世纪到六世纪的某个时候遭遇到了风暴。

If you can read any Arabic, you can tell what it says.

如果你会阿拉伯语的话，你就能明白上边说些什么。

The split between the two groups can hardly be papered over.

这两个团体间的分歧难以掩饰。

This approach not only encourages a greater number of responses, but minimizes the likelihood of stale groupthink.

这种做法不仅鼓励了更多的反应，而且减少跟风的可能性。